advice for moving with kids...HELP!!

My fiancee is in Charleston at power school right now. We'll be getting married soon, and I plan to move of course. I have two children from a previous relationship and together we have a 10wk old special needs baby. How difficult is it to move around with children in school? How is Charleston for families...ie schools, hospitals, things to do?! Where do I even begin in the moving process and how do you all handle it with children? I'm afraid they may freak out?!?!
So many questions and too scared to make a final decision without knowing more!!!
Thanks!

Alicia
~fiancee to James
~mommy to Isabella, Adysson & Brayden

sorry, i don't have kids at the moment. just so you make frequent stops and bring along snacks and drinks....maybe invest in a dvd player for the back of the car that they can watch. i don't know about military families with children but my sister just moved to a bigger school and they actually like it better. i guess it depends on how attached they are to their friends and school back home as to how they will adjust in the new home. i'm not sure how charleston is as far as schooling goes. as with most any military facility, there is always a bit of a wait at the military pharmacy in charleston. i would get my medicine on base at the clinic though, which didn't take as long. there is a lot to do in charleston, some people don't realize it though because they're too busy complaining about the weather and so they stay inside most of the time. i LOVED downtown charleston...it's so historic, lots of restaurants, shopping....and then you have a couple beaches only 15-30 minutes from you. hope that helps!